“Bakit mo nga ba kailangang mag move-on kung hindi naman naging kayo???”.. tanong na nanggaling sa post ni Mommy Rica, sino si Mommy Rica? Siya ay isang pinagkakatiwalaang kaibigan ng may-akda ng komentaryong ito. Sige! Sino dito ang hindi pa nakakaranas mag move-on sa taong hindi naman niya naging jowa?? Simula pa siguro nung elementary eh naranasan mo nang masaktan dahil hindi ka pinapansin nung crush mong basketball player na grade 6! Hahahahaha..
Pero seryoso, bakit nga ba no? siguro hindi lang natin matanggap na may mga bagay na hindi talaga puwede kya hindi tayo makamove-on. May mga namimiss tayo na mga pagkakataon kaya tayo nasasaktan dahil lumalim na masyado ang samahan. Ang masasabi ko lang, letting go is not easy especially if you haven’t really got a tight hold of it, sa isang simpleng kadahilanang “wala kang karapatan”. People come and go and they will teach you so many things in life that you will never ever experience if you haven’t met them at all. C’mon, everything that happened and will happen to all of us clearly shows the choices that we made and will be making.
So if there comes a time that you feel that you need to move on from something that you want to leave behind, just remember that it is a sign of maturity. Naisip ko bigla, ang daming may gusto sa kantang “Somebody that I used to know”, well I don’t believe that it’s just because of the inviting melody. This is because of the message of the song itself; we all have our own “somebody”. Somebody that would somehow put a smile on your face whenever you think of all the memories. However, at the end of the day we need to admit that he/she is already gone, and will only remain a part of the past. That’s how life works! So many moving-ons! And catching ups to do but always remember that the past no longer matters. It is what and who we have right now that really matters that we should hold unto and treasure.